According to legend, the father of one of my friends sent him out into the world at 18 with the following advice; “Remember boy, basketball is for homos and options are for losers.” I never figured out the basketball part. I think basketball is for everyone, but the options part I understand. He meant commit to something and stick with it.
I don’t know about that advice though, options can be pretty great. I wish I had more options for almost everything. Given the choice between black and white I will most often choose grey.